Friday, June 30, 2006

Oh Baby

Neil and I decided a few weeks back that I was going to go off my bc pills and try fertility awareness instead of pills. Well, we were talking last night and I was telling him that we need to really be careful right now because it's super easy to get pregnant after going off bc. His response was so? I thought you wanted another baby. I replied that while I did wouldn't it be better to wait until next summer to try that way M will be getting ready to start 5K and we won't have the expense of 2 in daycare. He said well since financially we can afford 2 in daycare without putting a strain on us at all...why wait?!! So we decided while we're not going to start trying per say we're not going to prevent either. SO we shall see what happens!!

Wednesday, June 21, 2006

Crunchiness

How crunchy are you? I wasn't crunchy at all with M, well mabe a little....but not much. I tried to breast feed, but didn't have much luck nor support from her then ped or the nursing staff at the hospital. They all thought I was trying to starve my baby. I made some of my own food, but not much. In the past three years I've learned sooo much and plan on doing things completely different nect time around. *gasp* I've even considered taking up to a year off work to be a SAHM (although I doubt I go through with it...it's huge for me to consider it) Some of the things I will be doing differently are: I will be breast feeding! I know tons of ways to help with supply problems and and latching problems now that I didn't have a clue about with M. I will be using cloth diapers instead of sposies. I battled paper rash with M, not to mention the fact that I went through a box of diapers a week. Plus, have you ever paid any attention to what those things are made of?! Not to mention that cloth diapers are the custest thing ever. Neil thinks this is crazy...he actually asked me if it was a cost issue??? lol like cloth diapering is that cheap. and like we're that freakin poor. I will make more of our own food. This was something I really really wanted to with M but didn't do as much of in the end. I've been trying for us to all eat healtheir anyway so it shouldn't be hard to do with a baby. I did some delayed vaxing with Maddie....but let the doctor talk me into some vac's that I wasn't sure about. I will be studying this much more between now and pregnancy time. I won't be homeschooling. I'm not a fan of home schooling, and I'm not sure that I would want to teach my children. Not sure if they will be doing public or private....we'll cross that bridge when we get there. I would also love to do a homebirth, but I can't seem to find any information about them in this state?? I've found a few hospitals that would let me have a birthing pool, stool and some other stuff...so I might have to go that route. I'm also a daycare advocate...not all daycares just the one I use. I've been really lucky to find a great place, and I think no more of leaving with M with anyone at her center than I do of leaving her with my mom. lol, not sure why I felt the need to blog about this. I've just been reading up alot lately on parenting stuff and thinking about how I want to raise my family. One of things that has always bothered me was that I didn't bf M long at all. I just listened to the nurses tell me supply was low and gave into formula feeding. I knew the benifits of the breast...but didn't know/have the resources to help me. That won't happen next time!

The natural way

Over the past 3 years I've tried about 2 dozen different kids of birth control,and none of them have worked for me. They give me miagraines, lessen my sex drive, make me moody, make me crampy, and the list goes on. After much reading and consideration I've decided to try charting. I will be charting my ovulation cycle and temperature to keep from getting pregnant. heh, we will see how well this works. Neil is all for it though...after this last batch of birth control (I didn't want to have sex for like 2 months) he is willing to try anything, even pregnancy!

Friday, June 16, 2006

Is this fair?

6 adults are going out to eat tonight, if we take children there will be a total of nine. Maddie is usually very well behaved when we go out to eat (if not I just go lock her in the car) 1. because she loves to eat, I mean this kid loves to eat. and 2. because she has been taught from a very early age. Couple 3 has 2 children that are total brats everywhere....I can't even imagine trying to eat at a nice place with them. SO I'm trying to make reservations but I don't know if B wants to bring her kids or not. If she brings her kids, then I'm sure with the 3 of them IT WILL BE HELL. If she doesn't bring her kids, then it isn't really fair for me to bring M while she has to leave her kids at home. BUT then it isn't fair to my child that knows how to behave to have to miss going because they can't. What to do?